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Anonymous · 10d

Please give me advice how to be a good adult. I'm 21 and I'm confused with everything.

It’s totally understandable to be confused when you’re 21. It feels everything tangled in your head, right? There are lots of doors in front of you but to choose and to enter one.. it’s hard to be sure of it. I think there isn’t any absolute answer on how to be good adult. You just need to experience more, meet people, go outside, talk more with people, try new things. Also, maybe try to have a discussion with someone about what confuses you. This helps to dismantle your strings of thoughts. If you need my help, you can also reach out to me.

Anonymous · 10d

kak arian. gimana ya aku ngomongnya t_t tweetsnya abang mateo lewat ditimeline aku dan kayaknya bener deh kaaaak. pacar kakak abang-abangan bgt 😭 gak dicek dulu kak? takutnya abang-abangan warnet beneran. #izin 🙏

Hahahaha aduh gimana ya bilangnya. Udah dicek kok, emang abang-abang warnet beneran dia. Setiap telponan diajak denger lagu warnet. Kalau ngomong juga abang-abang bener. Tapi malah makin bucin. Gimana ya.

Josea · 4 answers · 13d

Do you have your favorite sweets?

Anonymous · 16d

since this is an anon way to tell my secret, i kinda feel lonely even when i'm in a relationship rn...my bf makes me feel lonely especially when i can't talk to him. have you ever felt lonely even when you are in a relationship kak? like.. i feel so alone n lonely and my bf just dgaf about it. 😪

Anonymous · 16d

Would you trade Mateo for $100000000?

Honest answer? I wouldn’t. I can’t. I can’t live a day without him although someone hands me $100000000. But you should see his answer lol. My man is more realistic than I am.

Anonymous · 16d

kakak are you okay? why are you still up? u_u

I couldn’t sleep last night.. But I tried to sleep before it’s getting too late. I’m okay btw! Cuma susah buat shut down otaknya abis banyak mikir kemarin. Thank you for asking ya!

Anonymous · 16d

would you consider your partner as someone who's mature or is he someone who's like a baby to you? #kepo

Lol, kepo banget? Hahaha actually he’s so mature, someone big whom I can lean on. He’s two years younger than me but I don’t think he’s less mature than me. Even emotionally he’s highly aware of things and can point out something that might annoy or upset me. He’s my big baby in a way that I found him very endearing, adorable in his own way. He’s playful that sometimes I want to pinch him so bad lol. But, he’s also stern that at times I ended up obeying to what he says lol. No one has ever made me feel the way he does, actually. We’re each other’s baby and equal partners.

Anonymous · 16d

What's the latest movie you watched?

Honestly.. It’s been so long since the last time I went to the cinema and watched something. My last movie I watched is Project Hail Mary.

Anonymous · 16d

I want to share a piece of writing of mine, more precisely I want to know other people's opinions about it. Yay, nay?

Of course it’s a ‘yay’. Please share your writing, I’d like to read it.

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