Anonymous · 2mo
Quick question. Are you the type of jealous as a partner? If so, what’s your easiest way to cope? I understand how trust works but I can’t seem to trust my partner fully due to the thoughts of he’s a people pleaser like he couldn’t read hints if other people try to get to him romantically. Now that he has a work training for a month and half, it got me anxious for the possibility of him— meeting another new people. Sounds toxic but perhaps I can gain new perspective from you.
A really honest answer: yes, I'm easily jealous, lol. I love intensely, hence jealousy is something common to be there. Dan manusiawi because we love our partner so bad that we're afraid to lose them. However, the way we cope and how to act on that feeling is important. In your case, I'd keep this in mind: people get closer or make a move to my boyfriend is something out of my control. The way he responds to others and make others "baper" of him is also something out of my control. Selama you're communicating with him, bilang apa saja interaksi yang kamu gak nyaman kalau dia lakukan dengan orang lain, then your job is done. A healthy partner will be considerate of you; he won't do things that you consider uncomfortable. The rest is.. give in and trust him. Penuhi tangki cinta satu sama lain. Kamu sayang-sayang aja pacarmu selama dia lagi jauh, ya. Semangat!
