I realised I liked the "same" gender when I was in kindergarten to be honest. There was a girl in my kindergarten glass who I thought was really cool and I really wanted to spend all my time with her and be super close to her. But I didn't know what that was called and didn't remember that until I was around 4th grade when the pandemic began and I was able to explore all sorts of queer identities. I bounced through mostly multi-RoSe attractions before I finally settled on Pan.

As for me being trans? It didn't fully click until 6th or 7th grade or so. I knew I was bigender but I got outed so fucking bad that I kinda went back into the closet. After a while I started to come out again but mostly online, and I kept bouncing around before I finally settled to just... BoyGirl. 99% Boy, 1% Girl(?). It's hard to explain but it makes sense to me.