I am very sorry for using the ask all feature again so soon . But there is something important I wish to talk about that has required a lot of courage and energy and I have finally found the confidence to bring this up .
@Vulpine or Nari has previously engaged in the discussion of inappropriate and possibly predatory topics and behaviours with a minor . He is 19 years old , maybe even 20 by now , but at the time of these conversations , I was 16 and frankly in a horrible place . Everything I will be showing is as is and none of it is taken out of context , every response from me is because I felt like I had to engage to avoid conflict , my interest shown is fabricated and out of anxiety or fear .
All of these albums were made with accessibility in mind . You can copy the link to a specific image and post it into your browser to view the context provided .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/rK363Jz
This is the first album , where Nari is seen discussing one of our most common ( and one of the less uncomfortable but no less alarming ) topics . He shows off , explains and romanticises the idea of vaping , doing drugs , and consuming alcohol .
This topic in particular is one that I am , despite the lesser discomfort , very sensitive to . I am susceptible to trying out new things whether they are harmful or not , fearing I may miss out if I don ' t . I am afraid of not being able to try out everything I want to in my lifetime , and the way that Nari talked about these things only made me want to do it more . It seemed cool to me , the colours and the functionality of the vapes and the idea of getting high .
He did not consider the fact that discussing these things with a minor , impressionable as we unfortunately are , is dangerous and harmful . This fear of missing out became so bad that I had an anxious breakdown and spent an hour looking up how to obtain weed - related products because I was scared that I was doing something wrong by avoiding these behaviours . I could not sleep that night , and as I wasn ' t in therapy yet at the time , I couldn ' t tell anyone any of this and it was bottled up .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/Wvs6MPV
This second album is about him discussing his pregnancy and / or periods . This may seem like nothing at first , but I have previously mentioned that I have an extreme fear of pregnancy and carriage , childcare , menstruation and more related to those topics . I do not like hearing / reading and having to talk about it and Nari knew this because it was mentioned to him in his inbox .
He also mentioned that he no longer wanted his child to be a topic on the internet yet continued to talk about his stress regarding parenting to a child . I did respond on one or two occasions trying to help him but doing so was very stressful for me and he made me feel pressured into giving him advice that I didn ' t have .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/MnKGWxX
This final album is the most important and arguably the most predatory behaviour that Nari has shown . He is seen talking about using sex toys such as vibrators and dildos as well as a genuine conversation he had with a parent about condoms that he thought were bought for him and his partner . I was the most disturbed and uncomfortable reading these messages , I felt forced to reply despite how gross I felt for engaging in this topic . It is alarming to see him talking about previous sexual encounters and the emphasis on him no longer being a virgin to a minor and I felt so bad keeping quiet about this for so long .
Around February ( or so I believe ) I had cut Nari off entirely after he repeatedly messaged me while I was on DNI or IWVEC just to talk about something insignificant or non - emergent . But I realise the real reason was how uncomfortable I had been with him all along . I want everyone to see what he has done to me and to understand what I felt during these two months .
I ' m very sorry if there are words that sound over - used here or if there are any spelling mistakes . Please spread this if you can , it would help out a lot .
whos that in your profile picture :3 ???
Hello everyone, I wanted to specifically reply to the rentry @ushijima created to response of my claims. The rentry is here https://web.archive.org/web/20260407150854/https://rentry.co/3fh2xdi9 if you wish to read it
Firstly, They’re right, being predatory & being a pedophile are two different things. Pedophilia is a disorder & Predator is a status people gain upon preying on vulnerable individuals. I understand the frustration regarding using the two terms interchangeably as they imply two different things, that was a mistake which I stand on. Though while they are right on the definition of sexual predators, I do want to mention that not all predators seek sexual exploitation. The exploitation can come in other forms such as emotional, financial, physical. And while predators have the intents hidden behind their actions, it isn’t impossible for someone to behave in predatory ways unconsciously. This happens way frequently than it is expected which is why so many cases goes under the radar
Secondly, it is understandable to not see the problem with platonic relationships between two individual. As like they mentioned, platonic implies non-romantic & non-sexual intimacy. The problem here is why would you seek such intimacy, both emotional & interactional in an individual several years younger than you? Especially one that you knew for years prior to it. Even if it was initiated by the other side, this isn’t the type of relationship you should be having with a 13 year old and as the oldest it is your responsibility to STEP BACK. Sure, maybe that doesn’t necessarily make you a predator but it is inherently predatory. The fact that you call everyone you interact with “boyfriend/girlfriend” doesn’t remove the meaning the word holds. The fact that you admit that you removed it from your pastes as you knew it would bring you trouble shows that in some sort of way, you know it is inappropriate. Anyway with everything said, I think people should stick to their age range no matter what, you’re turning 18 soon. You’re at a completely different developmental stage than your friend “towa” is. I hope you are conscious of that at least.
And lastly, yes it is your choice whether you stick around izuyu or not. Though knowing what claims are held against her doesn’t help your case, obviously people will be questioning your morality. I am more than happy to hear that she is getting help, though it shouldn’t be your job to help her recover from predatory tendencies, nor should you at the most, if you truly wish to stick with her, allow her to interact with minors as they were her primary VICTIMS. If you truly wish to have her heal and change, remove your friend “towa” from her presence until it is crystal clear that she won’t slip up.
Anyway sure, call me a stalker for speaking up on predatory behaviour. It isn’t like you’re hiding your urls or making your presence unknown. Do you think I spend my entire day seeking out new information about you people? The information is delivered to me because you people don’t know how to behave and then cry when it’s made known. At least make sure you’re not being publicly ignorant before calling me a stalker 😊. I still stand by everyone I’ve said and all I claim you people to be. “Towa” you are obviously exempt from this you were just caught in the crossfire, I hope you will find the strength to leave soon. If not, it’s your choice but take care. That will be all, thank you all.
Boost again , I agree with everything said here but most of all Izu should have been removed from this " Towa " ' s presence the moment you ( Izu ' s partner ) found out about her actions . It is for that reason that I full - heartedly do not believe anything said along the lines of " I do not support her actions " because if you didn ' t , you would have taken it upon yourself to protect this minor that you are supposedly emotionally involved with and care for .
Just a heads up, @ushijima here is izuyu’s (@mafuyu)’s girlfriend. They were made aware of everything she has done but still decided to interact with her & date her. They also were “platonically dating” a 13 year old while being 17 themself. ( https://postimg.cc/gallery/2fZw2yz ) It shows that them & izuyu are a match made in heaven! Do not harass, just block.
I am very sorry for using the ask all feature again so soon . But there is something important I wish to talk about that has required a lot of courage and energy and I have finally found the confidence to bring this up .
@Vulpine or Nari has previously engaged in the discussion of inappropriate and possibly predatory topics and behaviours with a minor . He is 19 years old , maybe even 20 by now , but at the time of these conversations , I was 16 and frankly in a horrible place . Everything I will be showing is as is and none of it is taken out of context , every response from me is because I felt like I had to engage to avoid conflict , my interest shown is fabricated and out of anxiety or fear .
All of these albums were made with accessibility in mind . You can copy the link to a specific image and post it into your browser to view the context provided .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/rK363Jz
This is the first album , where Nari is seen discussing one of our most common ( and one of the less uncomfortable but no less alarming ) topics . He shows off , explains and romanticises the idea of vaping , doing drugs , and consuming alcohol .
This topic in particular is one that I am , despite the lesser discomfort , very sensitive to . I am susceptible to trying out new things whether they are harmful or not , fearing I may miss out if I don ' t . I am afraid of not being able to try out everything I want to in my lifetime , and the way that Nari talked about these things only made me want to do it more . It seemed cool to me , the colours and the functionality of the vapes and the idea of getting high .
He did not consider the fact that discussing these things with a minor , impressionable as we unfortunately are , is dangerous and harmful . This fear of missing out became so bad that I had an anxious breakdown and spent an hour looking up how to obtain weed - related products because I was scared that I was doing something wrong by avoiding these behaviours . I could not sleep that night , and as I wasn ' t in therapy yet at the time , I couldn ' t tell anyone any of this and it was bottled up .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/Wvs6MPV
This second album is about him discussing his pregnancy and / or periods . This may seem like nothing at first , but I have previously mentioned that I have an extreme fear of pregnancy and carriage , childcare , menstruation and more related to those topics . I do not like hearing / reading and having to talk about it and Nari knew this because it was mentioned to him in his inbox .
He also mentioned that he no longer wanted his child to be a topic on the internet yet continued to talk about his stress regarding parenting to a child . I did respond on one or two occasions trying to help him but doing so was very stressful for me and he made me feel pressured into giving him advice that I didn ' t have .
https://postimg.cc/gallery/MnKGWxX
This final album is the most important and arguably the most predatory behaviour that Nari has shown . He is seen talking about using sex toys such as vibrators and dildos as well as a genuine conversation he had with a parent about condoms that he thought were bought for him and his partner . I was the most disturbed and uncomfortable reading these messages , I felt forced to reply despite how gross I felt for engaging in this topic . It is alarming to see him talking about previous sexual encounters and the emphasis on him no longer being a virgin to a minor and I felt so bad keeping quiet about this for so long .
Around February ( or so I believe ) I had cut Nari off entirely after he repeatedly messaged me while I was on DNI or IWVEC just to talk about something insignificant or non - emergent . But I realise the real reason was how uncomfortable I had been with him all along . I want everyone to see what he has done to me and to understand what I felt during these two months .
I ' m very sorry if there are words that sound over - used here or if there are any spelling mistakes . Please spread this if you can , it would help out a lot .
please stay safe and take care of yourself 🤍 you are loved
Why are we cancelling adults using drugs.. And not helping them instead or cut off contacts from the start??
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