Hello everyone, I wanted to specifically reply to the rentry @ushijima created to response of my claims. The rentry is here https://web.archive.org/web/20260407150854/https://rentry.co/3fh2xdi9 if you wish to read it
Firstly, They’re right, being predatory & being a pedophile are two different things. Pedophilia is a disorder & Predator is a status people gain upon preying on vulnerable individuals. I understand the frustration regarding using the two terms interchangeably as they imply two different things, that was a mistake which I stand on. Though while they are right on the definition of sexual predators, I do want to mention that not all predators seek sexual exploitation. The exploitation can come in other forms such as emotional, financial, physical. And while predators have the intents hidden behind their actions, it isn’t impossible for someone to behave in predatory ways unconsciously. This happens way frequently than it is expected which is why so many cases goes under the radar
Secondly, it is understandable to not see the problem with platonic relationships between two individual. As like they mentioned, platonic implies non-romantic & non-sexual intimacy. The problem here is why would you seek such intimacy, both emotional & interactional in an individual several years younger than you? Especially one that you knew for years prior to it. Even if it was initiated by the other side, this isn’t the type of relationship you should be having with a 13 year old and as the oldest it is your responsibility to STEP BACK. Sure, maybe that doesn’t necessarily make you a predator but it is inherently predatory. The fact that you call everyone you interact with “boyfriend/girlfriend” doesn’t remove the meaning the word holds. The fact that you admit that you removed it from your pastes as you knew it would bring you trouble shows that in some sort of way, you know it is inappropriate. Anyway with everything said, I think people should stick to their age range no matter what, you’re turning 18 soon. You’re at a completely different developmental stage than your friend “towa” is. I hope you are conscious of that at least.
And lastly, yes it is your choice whether you stick around izuyu or not. Though knowing what claims are held against her doesn’t help your case, obviously people will be questioning your morality. I am more than happy to hear that she is getting help, though it shouldn’t be your job to help her recover from predatory tendencies, nor should you at the most, if you truly wish to stick with her, allow her to interact with minors as they were her primary VICTIMS. If you truly wish to have her heal and change, remove your friend “towa” from her presence until it is crystal clear that she won’t slip up.
Anyway sure, call me a stalker for speaking up on predatory behaviour. It isn’t like you’re hiding your urls or making your presence unknown. Do you think I spend my entire day seeking out new information about you people? The information is delivered to me because you people don’t know how to behave and then cry when it’s made known. At least make sure you’re not being publicly ignorant before calling me a stalker 😊. I still stand by everyone I’ve said and all I claim you people to be. “Towa” you are obviously exempt from this you were just caught in the crossfire, I hope you will find the strength to leave soon. If not, it’s your choice but take care. That will be all, thank you all.
Boost again , I agree with everything said here but most of all Izu should have been removed from this " Towa " ' s presence the moment you ( Izu ' s partner ) found out about her actions . It is for that reason that I full - heartedly do not believe anything said along the lines of " I do not support her actions " because if you didn ' t , you would have taken it upon yourself to protect this minor that you are supposedly emotionally involved with and care for .
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