oh god i'll have to shake my own brain to form some coherent thoughts on this. i hope what i say makes enough sense though. its definitely not gonna be as elaborated as i want it to so maybe i'll come back to this later and add some more stuff to it

basically:
sn > jw > jy > (it all becomes a mess here) jk = nk = sh > hs

sn: has mood swings and gets sulky very quickly but like i always say he's the most emotionally mature one to me so after he gets over his initial tantrum he's probably like okay can we talk now? i think he's kinda petty when he's mad at someone but i honestly don't see him as someone who actively enjoys holding grudges. and i think he's quite empathetic and knows how to put himself in other people's shoes so he's probably the best at solving stuff. AND!!! i think he's a very logical person despite what enha think lmfao (long talk about how all mbti types use thinking and feeling the difference happens when you consider if those functions are introverted or extraverted ones)

jw: to me he didn't really have much of an option as the leader before but i think as time went by he managed to learn how to balance this and starting taking more consideration when it comes to solving arguments? i think being a Fe dom (mbti again) helps him a lot with this, since its natural to seek harmony in his relationship/friendships so i think hes probably good at this even if hes quite stubborn sometimes

jy: hes quite the hothead honestly so if you only see the surface youd think ? why is he so up on the rank. but i think his motherly instincts probably start activating when he senses an argument so i think he ends up being a good mediator

(big wall here)

jk: basically the same as jay but the difference here is that i see him as someone who probably stays mad for longer than the average person because there is just so much Intensity on all areas when it comes to jake. so i doubt he can really shake the anger away quickly. but once he's past that i don't think he enjoys being on bad terms with his friends (or s/o) so he probably ends up admitting his own faults to the other person because i think his loyalty is bigger than his own ego

nk: a bit of a jungwon situation where he doesn't have much of an option but his case is being the maknae, so he just straight up has to listen to what his hyungs say lmfao. the problem here is that they're dealing with a 🚨📢🆘 MOODY TEENAGER 🆘📢🚨 so maybe its harder to get through him at first, but past all that he's still a clingy baby at heart so he probably starts slowly approaching them until they're on speaking terms and then when he knows all is chill again he's probably like "hey... about that thing... sorry..." and the rest are like it's okay kiki 🫳🏻🐥

sh: my guy here is too prideful to even consider he might be in the wrong. the way he argues on different enoclock episodes is funny as hell because when he's wrong he doesn't admit it he just switches opinions/options and stands by it pridefully AGAIN. so i think it's probably really hard to solve an argument because he'd stick too much to an opinion about one of the parties involved and would be unable to understand the other perspective fully LMFAO. love him though

hs: if you know my thoughts on the heesun fall out that basically explains why he's last lmfao. i think he'd try to swallow what's bothering him just to make the other person happy and think there was never an argument to begin with but since it's something he didn't manage to get off his chest it would get bigger until it explodes and he's not talking to the other person ever again. like jungwon he also is a Fe user but in his case its aux not dom, so i think the emotional burnout comes from there (more mbti talk...) so it results in shutting down after trying to please everyone instead of actually getting to solve the problem (that happened a lot during iland too my poor hampter...)

that's basically it. it still got long in the end 😅