onedoor · 2mo
it’s scary and sad how this fandom turned out, especially seeing fanbase/protect accounts take on roles that feel bigger than just being fans. i get that the intention is to protect and promote boynextdoor, but the way things are being handled lately feels uncomfortable and overwhelming.
also, there are so many fanbase accounts being made without equal support for all members, and it’s starting to feel unbalanced. when accounts present themselves like official or authoritative sources but don’t maintain fairness or consistency, it comes off as unprofessional.
or maybe i just miss the space we had before. it felt lighter and more genuine, and i think this shift is part of why we’ve lost so many onedoors already.
i’m not trying to attack anyone, just hoping there can be more awareness and care in how these spaces are handled. it should feel safe and enjoyable, not controlled or stressful.
i'm not sure i fully agree with everything you mentioned, but i do understand where you are coming from.
sometimes i also feel like there is a lack of a real sense of community in this fandom space. even when i try to just focus on the good parts, that feeling still comes and goes. if it weren't for the boys, i think i wouldve already closed this account by now.
lately ive been wondering whether it's really the fandom that's changed, or if i'm the one who is slowly outgrowing this space. either way, i just hope things can get better, and that this space can feel a bit more bearable for those who choose to stay.
