That’s a really thoughtful question—and honestly, it’s something I’ve thought about a lot too.

For me, respecting privacy doesn’t mean keeping secrets. Secrets usually come from fear—fear of being judged, of losing trust, or of hurting someone. Privacy, though, is more about personal space—the right to have thoughts, memories, or moments that belong to you alone, without it meaning you’re hiding something harmful.

I do believe being faithful, honest, open, and respectful are all absolutely necessary in a romantic relationship. But I think honesty doesn’t mean sharing every single thing that crosses your mind—sometimes it’s about choosing what’s meaningful and kind to share, while still staying truthful. Faithfulness isn’t only about not betraying someone, but about choosing them every day, even in silence.

So, in short—yes, honesty and loyalty are essential. But I also believe a little personal space keep it from turning into possession or even obsession. What about you, Anon? Do you think full transparency is always the healthiest way?