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The nameless traveler. · 13d
i couldn’t comprehend you could set such strict boundaries with your partner yet you couldn’t set the same boundaries for ‘other people’.
it determined how important they are to you. it also quite showing how much ‘faithful’ you are to your partner.
just a kind and gentle warning to be careful playing with fire. you prolly wouldn’t be able to handle the outcome later—most likely you won’t. remember to think before you act. also, remember how much forgiveness and kindness your partner has been giving you—if it was other people, you have been so doomed, missy. you have been cheating and you know you do whether you intended to or not. and there must be consequences for your own infidelity. it would be grand, you surely know that.
but no worries, missy. he would be alright as there are actually tons ready to snatch him away from you. you just too focused on your ownself that you have yet to realize other lioness are ready to pounce at your lovely partner.
You’ve got a lot to say for someone who only sees half the picture.
I haven’t cheated—not in action, not in thought, not in anything. I set boundaries because I respect my relationship, not because I’m hiding something.
And about those “lioness” you mentioned? Let them try. I’m not scared of competition, because what we have isn’t that easy to steal.
So here’s a little warning back. Before accusing someone of betrayal, make sure your assumptions can survive the truth.
The nameless traveler. · 20d
What would you do if you had the ability to fly?
The nameless traveler. · 20d
you mentioned respecting each other’s privacy was one of the necessary boundaries in relationship. does that mean you may keep secrets from your supposedly romantic partner?
is being completely faithful, honest, open and respectful to your supposedly romantic partner not being necessary for you?
That’s a really thoughtful question—and honestly, it’s something I’ve thought about a lot too.
For me, respecting privacy doesn’t mean keeping secrets. Secrets usually come from fear—fear of being judged, of losing trust, or of hurting someone. Privacy, though, is more about personal space—the right to have thoughts, memories, or moments that belong to you alone, without it meaning you’re hiding something harmful.
I do believe being faithful, honest, open, and respectful are all absolutely necessary in a romantic relationship. But I think honesty doesn’t mean sharing every single thing that crosses your mind—sometimes it’s about choosing what’s meaningful and kind to share, while still staying truthful. Faithfulness isn’t only about not betraying someone, but about choosing them every day, even in silence.
So, in short—yes, honesty and loyalty are essential. But I also believe a little personal space keep it from turning into possession or even obsession. What about you, Anon? Do you think full transparency is always the healthiest way?
Timothy · 24d
Saya mau buat Emrys senyam senyum sendiri. Coba kasih top 3 yang disuka dari Emrys!
Apa, ya...
- Dia @ashenoaths. 😮💨
- Agak aneh sih kadang, tapi lucu. 😩
- He's super cute and clingy!
The nameless traveler. · 23d
can you probably share what might be necessary boundaries in relationship and how ideals relationships might be going based on your own opinions?
Menurutku, hubungan romantis yang sehat itu punya batasan jelas. Misal, tetap menghargai privasi, jujur dalam komunikasi, saling percaya tanpa curiga berlebihan, dan menjaga kenyamanan fisik maupun emosi. Meskipun saling mencintai, keduanya tetap butuh ruang untuk diri sendiri. Hubungan ideal buat aku hm... yang saling mendukung dan percaya satu sama lain, mungkin?
The nameless traveler. · 2mo
Hai, if you dont mind me asking, Kirana lagi deket sama seseorang nggak?