Would you say you're a bad person, or do you consider yourself good?
I believe that, despite all my black & white thinking, there is nuance in all things. [Average, powerless - not the Elite] People are more than "good" or "bad", we are simply... Humanity is famous for its' capable of change and resilience, evolution. I choose to use that ability to positively change. Even if it takes baby steps or little things.
I think I am a bad person - I have many short comings and negative traits .. especially ones that don't just impact me but affect those around me despite my efforts to change them
I've often been called abbrasive and difficult to be around, I mask constantly when I'm around others because of this too .. along with my lack of empathy - I do try and overcompensate for it with choosing to care for others but it's difficult and I feel like a preformative person a lot of the time because of it ..
But maybe I just have aspd
I think both are dependent.
Being a bad person can oftentimes mean prioritising yourself over others or having self-respect and not being afraid to stand up for yourself.
I’ve been called rude and a cunt for standing my ground and not allowing myself to be disrespected, so I have learned to embrace it.
I am empathetic, but I will always give back the same energy I get. I think both, but I would consider myself a bad person, influenced by OCD no doubt but that’s how it is sometimes
OHH I LIVE FOR QUESTIONS LIKE THESE! The ones that Make you think on yourself/Your connections to others, Etc. I personally Consider myself a good Person. I dont think Im a perfect, Flawless guy of course. Ive done crappy Things, especially in the past when I was more immature.
However, as ive Matured and thought back on Everything, Ive dedicated myself to being full of Care and Appreciation for everyone. When you spend So much time hating on and being annoyed By people, When you spend Most of your time Hurting people, Itll genuinely Get to you one day or another. Whether it Manifests in guilt, or Feeling unfulfilled with such a bleak Life.
I enjoy being Kind, I do good things Without wanting a Reward because the kindness Itself is rewarding, I love everyone! It isnt influenced by Society or Me wanting to abide by Rules, its what I myself crave. Others happiness brings Me happiness.
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