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neli do you prefer a heavy bouncy jiggly bottom or a demure petit little bubbly cupcake when spanking hehe or no preference?
I love both, anon! Rather than the shape of a bottom, I’m more interested in the spankee’s reactions and how they take their spanking. It’s the interaction that gets me going, the sounds they make, the little movements, the tears, their general bearing. Now, objectively, a nice wobble and bounce is very satisfying of course, but even the most conventionally considered perfect bottom has nothing going for it if the spankee is not responsive enough or if they’re too and disproportionately responsive that it becomes annoying. So yeah, the right mix of reactions is what does it for me, the chemistry in this beautiful intricate dance, not the shape of their ass
do you have any favorite reason to spank a character for though? do you like it most when they actually misbehave big time and fully earn that punishment, and even dread it because they know what’s coming, or just when they’re being playful/cheeky and taunt their top until they get what they want?
Hiii anon! I guess it depends on my mood and on the story I wish to tell. When I’m in a soft fluffy mood, I’d go for a nice fun spanking as part of a sexual act and then there’s no apprehension or dread. I’m not too big on character taunting and bratting and misbehaving on purpose just to provoke their partner to spank them; if they want a spanking, they should ask nicely. Now, if they’re taunting and bratting on purpose in order to provoke a reaction or test boundaries but they don’t expect the reaction to be a spanking, that’s a different story, and I quite enjoy when they’re caught by surprise like, they expected something but not that, and now they have to deal with the indignity of having their bottom bared for their partner’s wrath. And it’s fun to explore their reactions of surprise and dismay that turn to confusion and even slight humiliation upon realising they actually like this, and ultimately full shameless acceptance and eagerness.
And when I’m in a bit darker mood, I love non-sexual spanking that’s clearly a punishment doled out by an authority figure. Then I love the whole non-con aspect of it, the fear, the tears, the distress, the shame, and anguish and misery. Actually those non-sexual setups are my most favourite spanking scenes to read tbh
And another one that I like is when the lines are blurred and the partner is in fact this authority figure in a relationship with a huge power imbalance, like omegaverse is great for that, or war prize aus, or some kind of historical setting, and the spanking is a punishment and means to assert dominance and keep one’s partner in check. It’s understood that disciplining your partner is fully within your right, and they find the spanking scary and shameful and utterly distressing, but perhaps they also can be faced with confusing feelings where this kind of submission leads them to experience arousal as well, and then they go through this whole journey of self-discovery.
What about you, anon? I suppose you read my fics, since you’re asking me about spanking and spanking characters specifically. What kind of setup is your favourite to read? Was there a fic I wrote that you read and got particularly tickled by? I’d love to know!!
for what reasons do you think someone deserves a spanking? vague but <3
omg tysm for your detailed abt your fav spank positions🌸😊 im rly interested in the otk where the bottom straddles one of the tops legs, legs in an interlace basically, feeling friction down there against the thigh with every spank 🥵also being made to bend over standing without much support.. just a rough arm holding them up or hand pushing them to bend.. so humiliating as they hold the position. and omg being perched over something.. pillow yeahh as spankee desperately tries to grind a bit to no avail..
Oh I’m very happy you appreciated my elaborating on the spanking positions that I like! Thank you!! Excellent taste, Anon, yesss, the over the knee one with one of the legs hooked over the spanker’s leg is indeed such a delicious position. I adore it, obviously I said it is one of my favourites. It makes the bottom so vulnerable and it is so super embarrassing for them, because everything is out there in the open. There is not an ounce of modesty they can preserve that way, their little hole and their other most private bits are exposed both to the assault of my hand or whichever implement I’m using, as well as to my prying eyes. And they know it!!! I can see them try to clench, and I can feel how flustered it makes them, both for the fact that clenching is not exactly easy in that position and for the fact that everything is out there in the open. It really makes them so much more vulnerable, and the added embarrassment layer is chef’s kiss! And yes, their movements, the little jerks and twitches, would make their private parts rub against your thigh, so you can scold them for being so slutty and so naughty and so pathetic. And since they're being so incorrigibly shameless, and since it’s also already right there in front of your eyes and your hand, I’d say their little hole deserves a spanking too.
The one where you make them bend over slightly without any support is also good! I especially like that you mention just roughly holding them up or forcing them to bend, aaaah, that one’s perfect for impromptu spankings, especially in public where you have to make do due to either a lack of space or anything to bend over, for example in a bathroom stall, or on a deserted park path. So you just push their upper body slightly down, or grab them around their waist to hold them down better. That’s great for, in my opinion, belt spanking. Cause if it’s a public place you’re kinda in a rush and want to make your lesson short but memorable. And it’s so embarrassing for them, the public setting makes them want to keep quiet, but it’s actually pointless because the smacks are heard even if they themselves don’t utter a sound.
Also, a variation of that, if there’s something to step on with your one foot, like a bench or a chair, and if the bottom is petite enough, you may just put your foot on that whatever surface so that your knee is bent at a 90 degrees angle, and then you pull them over your knee, just throw them over it, have them perched over your leg, while their legs are off the floor and dangling. The fact that their toes are not touching the ground, once more, adds to their vulnerability (I am all about vulnerability as you can see lmao), because you’re manhandling them in this very clear display of physical power over them, it makes them feel very small and very poor and utterly at your mercy. For this position, I’d pick a hairbrush.
But yes, also the one where you just order them to bend over and touch their toes. There is nothing to support them, they are just left to stand doubled over and stay in position as best as they can. Also, when they are bent so much, basically folded in half, the skin of their bottom stretches and flattens, so there isn’t much wobbly meat to cushion the blows, and these kinds of spankings hurt more. The most logical implement for this would be a cane, and yes, of course, but I’d personally pick a birch.
And aww the soft pillow and rubbing themselves is reserved just for very special occasions and very special kittens when I’m feeling generous or in a mood to see them grind desperately and rub themselves against the cushions. That’s adorable and very sweet, makes me very fond to see such a reaction. Which doesn’t mean I shall always allow it. But it is fun to tell them no and watch them try to obey but can’t help the little movements as they chase friction, so maybe I would just have to punish them again and then coo what a needy naughty slutty little kitten they are and oh so shameless. If they are repentant enough, I might help them or talk them through it gently. Oh god there’s nothing more delicious than a sniffly crying kitten horny out of their mind while trying to be good, being at your mercy.
Thank you so much for the delightful ask, Anon!!! ❤️❤️❤️
u do have cute oomfs we wanna see disciplined by you💥💥 also love the term “palm is itching for” so good
Oh my moots are indeed super cute and I’m sure there’s many spankable people in general, but I am not about to make anyone uncomfortable, and I don’t think I ever cross the boundary of what’s appropriate. At the most, in the group of my super close friends we might joke by being absolutely shameless with each other, but even that is mostly done in the privacy of a discord server rather than on the timeline. But to be perfectly honest, I actually really do not find myself thirsting after my moots like, ever. Except that One Single Time, mentioned in the alterspring response you’re referring to, but even then, I never showed it, nor did my interactions with that person ever carry even a hint of sth inappropriate. I basically only screamed about it to Logan ghgahfga
But omg yes, thank you! The palm itching for someone’s bottom is indeed a great expression, and I cannot think of another one that would relay the sentiment as well 🍑👏
Thank you Anon!!! ❤️❤️❤️
favorite type of bottom for a spanking? feisty, prideful ones? sweet darlings who will bawl their little hearts out right away?
Ahh sweet anon, I love the spanking asks jghfahs thank you for indulging me. I have two types of favourite bottoms for spanking that I go absolutely insane about.
One is a sweet soft kitten, more playful than truly naughty, definitely spoiled and pampered and cherished and they know it, but not exactly a brat. Rather, they want to be good, they need to be told they’re good, and need to be often praised.
Just a stern look will have them correct their behaviour immediately, but lessons still need to be learned, so over my lap they go. They benefit from gentle loving scolding, and they cry big genuine tears of remorse, being so sorry for being such a naughty kitten. Then afterwards, they have to be comforted and reassured they are loved and cherished and forgiven.
They don’t kick if they can help it, nor do they try to shield their bottom with their hands. They are just so good. If that happens, it’s an involuntary reaction, and there’s ways of making sure it doesn’t happen. They bawl their eyes out and sob apologies, promising to be good and pleading for no more. They’re generally obedient, and will come when called for a spanking and get into a position, but they will start crying right away, as soon as they realise they’re about to get spanked, and they’ll immediately try to beg to get out of punishment.
At first, it’s mostly pleading, but as the punishment progresses, that is replaced by professing how sorry they are and how they shall never be naughty again. Then they will get to be bundled up and caressed, have their hair kissed, be soothed all the way until they stop crying, which may take a while. I adore the soft sweet kittens.
And the other one of my favourites is A Stoic Boy. He knows the drill, he knows he’s not getting out of it, and so he doesn’t even try. If anything, he wants to get it over with as soon as possible. He is so disciplined that just a raised eyebrow and a chin tilt in the right direction is enough for him to bend over and drop his trousers. The only sign of distress at the imminent punishment is pursed lips and his face going pale at first, then cheeks burning red.
He grits his teeth throughout it, trying not to move or make a sound. Eventually, there might be an occasional stifled grunt, involuntary knee twitch, or a silent gasp, swallowed whimper of pain. But he remains in position, no need to even be reminded to, and takes all you have to give him. In silence. There is no need to scold him. He knows what he did wrong. But he is often defiant, so it is not so much about learning a lesson not to do something again, but about being ready to accept the consequences of his actions. And he might very well repeat the offense if it is something he cares about. He knows he will be punished for it, but that’s just a price to pay, and he makes a conscious choice to pay it. Pain is good for A Stoic Boy—it builds character.
You may ask him to count, depending on the implement used, like if we’re talking about a cane. Or to count the final ten or twenty strokes if it’s a belt. It’s delicious to see him struggle to count out loud but trying not cry out in pain.
Of course, no need to comfort him afterwards. Once it’s done, he pulls up his trousers and that’s it. His eyes might be red-rimmed a bit, and his lips might be bitten bloody in his efforts to take it stoically without crying out loud, but he then goes on about his day.
I adore the Stoic Boy as much as I adore the soft precious kitten.
Thank you so much, dear anon, this ask made me so happy and filled my head with delicious thoughts ❤️❤️❤️
neli what are your thots on sugar baby flx 😳😳
Hiii Anon! I love sugar baby felix and I can easily see him as anyone’s sugar baby, but for some reason my mind went to hyunlix. Felix is the cutest most pampered little thing, he is so well behaved, so sweet, so eager to please and earn that sugar. Hyunjin treats him well, he is caring and gentle, always very attentive in public, impeccable manners. He is not too demanding, but his sexual tastes and appetites are intense. Felix actually rather enjoys it. He has never been fucked so thoroughly, where he feels that every ounce of his being is coming undone and being shattered, then lovingly put back together. The sex is great, Hyunjin is nice, they have great time together.
Except. Hyunjin is easy to give praise, to shower him with compliments, to pour endearments. But there is nonetheless a certain coldness to him, as if he is kinda aloof, not exactly distant, but there is simply a layer of him that Felix cannot penetrate. And yes, he is at all times being all like sweetlix, precious kitten, beloved poppet, but Felix cannot escape the feeling that this is just the way Hyunjin talks. Which he shouldn’t really care about, because he’s got a pretty sweet deal with him, but Hyunjin being so amazing and so gorgeous, Felix does fall for him, and his feelings grow stronger by the day.
He gets needy, clingy, pouty. Hyunjin is entertained by this, but still continues acting the same way. Perhaps the slight aloofness is just part of his elegance. But Felix yearns for more, for certainty, for the “what are we” conversation. He’s too clever to actually push Hyunjin and pressure him into doing anything more than he already does, but the elegant coldness frustrates him, he feels like Hyunjin is a carefully beautifully carved mask of polite manners and easy flowing endearments, where every single “sweetlix” and every single “poppet” is nothing more than a quirky way he speaks. He calls almost everyone “darling”.
So inevitably, Felix starts getting moody, acting needy. And Hyunjin loves being worshiped and adored, but while the clinginess flatters him, his natural instinct in such situations is to pull back, to act unattainable, more aloof, like he doesn’t care. This is a game of hot and cold that he loves and which usually leads people to chase him even more. And Felix does. He texts a lot more than he would have at the beginning of their “relationship”, he gets whiny and pouty, constantly saying how much he misses Hyunjin, making sure Hyunjin knows he is always available, and even more than that, that he always yearns and craves to see him.
Hyunjin appreciates that, or so it seems, because he reacts with fond amusement, like Felix is being so very silly. Cute, but oh so very silly. But Hyunjin’s heart somehow always seems out of reach. Even if Hyunjin professes his love as easily as shaking someone’s hand and lavishes him with attention. Felix worries there is no true substance behind the generously poured endearments and that Hyunjin would be like that with anyone.
He also knows he has no right to demand more, they arrangement is not that of a true romantic relationship, and he worries that acting needy will put too much pressure on Hyunjin and turn something that should be a fun and carefree and easy arrangement into something that more resembles a crisis married people have after decades of being together. Besides, they are not even exclusive. Or, they never talked about that.
Hyunjin never placed any demands except that Felix always looks his best and that he has Felix’s full attention whenever he calls or comes to meet him. Seeing other people has never even been mentioned. And Felix doesn’t know if Hyunjin is fucking someone else too. It is not his place to ask. But he sees how he giggles at other people’s casual touches that linger on his body for a bit too long to be appropriate, he sees the way Hyunjin basks in admiration, how flirty he gets with almost everyone. And Felix doesn’t know what to make of it. He shouldn’t be jealous, it’s not his place to be jealous. But he is.
So yes, dear anon, slightly angsty sugar baby hyunlix here, and really it can develop in different ways, so you take from it what you like. Thank you for the ask!! It was very fun to think about this ❤️❤️❤️
kitty flx being spanked because he needs it for because he's a lil babie hngggg
Oh he for sure is a kitten in need of a spanking, yes! And he truly needs it, he loves being manhandled over hyung’s lap and held down and having his bottom smacked. It hurts a little but he feels safe and taken care of. But he is perhaps a little shy to openly voice his need, so he goes about it by trying to earn it. He starts acting out, trying to be naughty, all the while pushing his ass into hyung’s face hoping hyung takes a hint. However, despite being a little gremlin, he is not in fact truly a brat. Deep down, he actually wants to be good, and his attempts at being naughty are harmless, kinda pathetic compared to proper brats. I think he would probably get frustrated when his acting out doesn’t provoke the desired reaction, but is instead met with hyung just giving a soft good-natured scoff and shaking his head. It would be fun to have him so worked up, trying so desperately hard to do every single naughty thing he can think of, but then catch him by surprise when he doesn’t expect it!
Maybe others are present as well, and it might not even be a really naughty thing he does, but an innocent little mishap. Nonetheless, he’s been gagging for it for days prior, and if it’s spanking he wants, that’s exactly what he’s going to get. Only, it’s important to make him aware that it is happening on hyung’s terms, so not exactly the way he wanted. I genuinely love when he bites off more than he can chew.
So hyung pinches his ear, right there in front of everyone, and drags him to a room to the side, where he’s given a stern scolding. Now, he did need and want a spanking for days, but he didn’t really want for others to be able to hear it. He is so very embarrassed about it. Maybe even starts pleading “Hyung, please, not now, I’ll be good, please if you must spank me, do it later, when we’re alone”. But it’s too late for that. And the fact that he spent so many days trying to brat and is now having the audacity to ask for his well due spanking to happen later, tsk tsk tsk. I think he’s about to learn an important lesson. Because hyung not only ignores his pleas, but even worse, makes him go and fetch a hairbrush. So he has to walk out of the room, walk past everyone who all know what’s about to happen as they not only saw him dragged away but also probably heard the scolding, and then he has to make the same way back with the hairbrush in his hand. He is blushing bright red, so embarrassed, and keeping his eyes to the ground, because he cannot face anyone’s gaze now. Even if the others don’t taunt him, it is still very humiliating. Especially that, given that even a hand spanking could very well be heard from the other room, the hairbrush spanking will be so tremendously loud, perhaps even the neighbours in another apartment will hear it.
But his little bottom is itching for it, and despite the embarrassment, he is still pleased that he’s about to get what he wanted and needed. Excitement mixed with trepidation, a very familiar feeling for him. But it is important not to let him think he is in control of anything. Yes, he did want this spanking, but he is about to get a lot more than he bargained for. Hyung will make it extra long and hard; he won’t be able to sit right the next day. Very soon, he will no longer be so worried about the fact that others can hear him getting spanked, it simply won’t be a priority for him to consider, all of that will fade in comparison to the heavy sharp smacks of the hairbrush against his bare bottom. And even when the point is reached where he definitely has had enough, the itch has been scratched, the lesson learned, hyung will not stop, but continue until the kitten is utterly spent, all the fight and the spunk has left him, and he regrets ever trying to act out, sobbing apologies, his bottom blazing and throbbing and crimson.
Then hyung will bundle him up in his lap like a very sorry pitiful sniffling kitten, and comfort him. Shh sweetheart, shhh, it’s good now, yes it hurts doesn’t it, oh but you have been so naughty sweet thing, there there, all good now, shhh.
I think it would be very cathartic for him.
And this has now inspired me to finally start working on the continuation of my hybrid-felix-gets-punished fic. I’ll drop a link in the tweet reply as well, check it out if you haven’t!
https://archiveofourown.org/works/73850606
Thank you, anon!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Neli would you spank any oomfs❤️🔥
Why? Are you an oomf and would you want me to spank you? 😈 Or is there another oomf you deem to be particularly spankable and want to see disciplined by me specifically?
Tbh anon, I would spank pretty much anyone who needs it, not only because I find it hard to resist a bottom and am drawn to butts on an almost instinctual level, but also because I am nice and selfless and noble like that. And I also have a sadistic streak of sorts and like to spank people and see how much it would take to make them cry 😇
But if there is a specific oomf whose bottom my palm is itching for, there was actually one. Few years ago, there was such a cute sexy pretty little kitten, so playful and sweet, and I have spent quite some time consumed by tremendous desire to pull him over my lap. Logan knows who I’m talking about, because Logan knows all my secrets hhgjdhkgj Although perhaps some of my older moots might also guess who it is, because I kinda have a feeling half my timeline wanted to spank that cutie
So yes, there was one, years ago, and I still think of that oomf and his bottom with much fondness ❤️❤️❤️
when spanking is used as a real punishment in a fic it always confuses me so much when people are upset that the bottom isn’t eagerly giving their consentment and feeling pleasure and only pleasure at all times. that it hurts and it makes them upset and they’re not asked about their opinion is kinda what makes it a punishment…and they can feel a little pleasure even if the consent is dubious or there’s no consent at all
This is a good point, anon, and I’d like to add that the way I see it, and what I especially love about punishment spankings, is that when it’s a punishment, it’s always actually either non con or dub con, because even if the blorbo bares their bottom willingly, it’s because they’re operating within the frames of their circumstances or the circumstances of the world they live in. Which usually means that the lack of compliance will lead to a much harsher treatment, so they’re picking the lesser of the two evils.
And it’s precisely this lack of consent that makes the punishment appealing to me when I read or write it. Because when I’m reading or writing, it’s about my own pleasure, and not about the pleasure of the characters, and sometimes I just like it when they don’t have any
A punishment is not supposed to make them feel good, but kinda miserable and broken, well chastised. Now, sometimes these lines can blur and a blorbo may discover that they’re getting some pleasure from something that is supposed to be a punishment only, and that’s also fun to explore. So it kinda depends on the setup and the story
But even when it’s not at all a punishment but something within a sexual play, I am of firm belief that it still should hurt. So regardless of whether it’s a punishment or a fun game that brings pleasure, it should hurt a lot in my opinion. I am not into some half-assed barely there smacks, no. I want to see that blorbo cry and I want their bottom properly thrashed
These spanking asks are giving me life, thank you, anon! keep them coming! ❤️❤️❤️
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