Aww Anon, this is so cute! Saying that my writing is so good that it makes me a bit intimidating is perhaps one of the nicest things someone said about my writing, it really is such a compliment and I am so incredibly flattered. Thank you ❤️
As for the bdsm, I have to say i don’t consider myself to be some super big expert, I mostly just know what I like. There’s so much I don’t know, but I’d say a good place to start, and also actually a good place to be in in general, is knowing what you like and not being afraid to indulge your curiosity about things that might appeal to you, be it different ways to spank someone, or wine, or art, or literally whatever. Seeking knowledge is how we acquire knowledge, and nobody popped into this world knowing stuff, it’s always a process. So don’t let anyone make you feel bad about something you don’t know or think you don’t know enough about. Curiosity is a wonderful quality, and being open to gaining new information and free to ask questions is sth we should never stop doing. Anyone who looks down on you or makes you feel inadequate for not knowing sth is only projecting their own insecurity.
But I’m happy to hear that you’re not too scared to interact 🤗 I’m actually usually rather kind to people, unless they’re rude, so don’t be scared! (although it is cute that you’re a wee bit terrified jfhdhfhfhf)
Thank you, sweet Anon, both for indulging my curiosity now and also for saying those tremendously kind things about my writing ❤️❤️❤️

Hii Anon! I actually did write one jeonglix, I’ll post a link also in the tweet reply. But yes that little spanking clip where felix stands facing the wall and is being still as he’s waiting for those deliberate and slow and measured smacks was very delicious. He’s being so well behaved, doing what he’s told, standing in the corner and letting the baby alpha practice putting him in his place. I for some reason have a very soft spot for either a little mean Innie or for absolutely feral baby alpha Innie who cannot at all control his urges, like it’s so very new to him and he has zero skill regulating the very powerful impulses. And omega felix is so indulgent with the baby alpha, he lets him do whatever he wants, even if he ends up so sore and broken, that’s his baby and he loves him and he’s not gonna deny him anything. Either that or slightly mean Innie who knows he’s got the upper hand and while he loves felix dearly he cannot resist letting his evil side seep through
Anyway, here’s the link to the jeonglix I wrote, it’s short as it was part of the October drabbles
https://x.com/nelneliore/status/1975289258371129823?s=46

I might write more jeonglix but I’m shuffling two multichapter wips and also about to start working on the slickfest fic, as well as continuing that hybrid felix fic cause I’ve been obsessed with that kitten, but yeah, my brain has too many ideas at any given moment, but if a certain jeonglix brainworm shows up and compels me enough, I’ll probably be unable to resist and will put other stuff on hold
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Oh yesss the seunglix hotel sex scenes were so hot! I had so much fun writing them as they were still learning how to be with each other and discovering and revealing what they’re into, especially cause at that moment, the sweetness between them was still so cautious because it was early days and neither one of them felt secure in what they have. They were so brave and so kinky! My precious babies ❤️❤️❤️ but oh god yes felix is so horny in that au and in Seungmin he has found his match, I love how they haven’t discussed pretty much any single thing they did and yet all of it just clicked into place being exactly what the other one wants. Ass whipping with a belt? Absolutely! Plugged full of come during a whole day photoshoot? He’s delighted! Little hole spanking? Bring it on! Hole stretched with fingers while cock is already inside? Exactly what he wanted! And so on. I really love that au so much, and yeah, the little hole spanking there is very sweet despite being rather filthy and horny, in other scenes when it happens as well
But you’re so right! Inspection fic is something else entirely hfhdgdgdgd I don’t think I ever wrote THAT much spanking in a single fic in my life. At least not in a one shot anyway. And I agree, when it’s part of the punishment it’s actually hotter for me to read (and write tbh) like, I love when it’s a fun sex scene where they’re both into it but I adore when it might not even be part of sex at all and is just there to be cruel and mean and make the boy cry and teach him a very memorable lesson. And yes, the embarrassment of it, especially if it happens in front of some audience, the indignity of having to keep their asscheeks spread and all their soft tender shy little parts on full display nnngggh I go feral for it
Waaaah thank you so much, I’m really so honoured and touched that my filthy fics resonate with you so much, it’s such a high praise and makes me so incredibly happy!!! Thank you dear sweet Anon!! ❤️❤️❤️

Aww Anon that’s so cool, yay! I’m so happy to hear that! I love when people tell me that my writing got them to consider sth they weren’t really into before or introduced them to a new thing they haven’t even thought about before. That’s the best compliment ever, and you’re so sweet to tell me this, you made me so happy 🥰
I love hole spanking so much, it combines two things I love the most: little holes and spanking 🌸👏 it’s so special and so vulnerable and embarrassing and so tender and precious aaaah
But omg I’m greedy to know more! Was there a particular scene or a particular fic that really did it for you? I’m dying to know! Tell me please please please ❤️❤️❤️

Ohh yes Anon, I remember the hybrids minlix thread with cat Minho taking kitten lix under his wing and keeping him in line. Kitten lix is not exactly naughty but he’s young and carefree and too playful for his own good, and cat Minho thinks his behaviour is not always prudent and how a good kitten should be. He plays these silly games with others and likes it when they smack his little bottom, getting all giggly and giddy, but Minho takes spankings very seriously; it’s not a game, and he’s about to show kitten lix just how serious it is. Because isn’t it also that kitten lix playfully offers his butt for smacks to others because he likes showing his cute little ass? That’s so shameless and so naughty. Unacceptable. Minho will teach him what happens when he draws attention to his perky little bottom and he’s gonna correct this kind of shameless behaviour so that any attention to his little butt will make kitten lix remember the spanking Minho gave him and how much it hurt, and he’s gonna think twice before he engages in such silly naughty games with other members again. He wants his bottom spanked? That’s exactly what he’s gonna get now, and Minho promises him that he’s not going to like it one little bit!
Aaaah Anon thank you for reminding me of hybrid minlix, I love them so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Hii Anon! I’m more into teasing them with the suitable implement by pressing it against their little hole, a threatening little poke just to see them panic.
If it were to be actually inserted, then it’d definitely be part of the punishment, and a really humiliating one; perhaps they need to stay in position with the suitable implement handle jammed inside their little hole, on display for anyone to see, and they have to clench to keep it inside, because if it falls out they’d get punished more. But I don’t think there’s many implements that would manage to remain inside, mainly due to the length, so you’re setting them up to fail, which is devious and fun, but yeah, I’m much more into just some threatening teasing to make them panic. As for it being a reward, I don’t think so, reward is always fingers
Thank you anon!!!

I love both, anon! Rather than the shape of a bottom, I’m more interested in the spankee’s reactions and how they take their spanking. It’s the interaction that gets me going, the sounds they make, the little movements, the tears, their general bearing. Now, objectively, a nice wobble and bounce is very satisfying of course, but even the most conventionally considered perfect bottom has nothing going for it if the spankee is not responsive enough or if they’re too and disproportionately responsive that it becomes annoying. So yeah, the right mix of reactions is what does it for me, the chemistry in this beautiful intricate dance, not the shape of their ass

Hiii anon! I guess it depends on my mood and on the story I wish to tell. When I’m in a soft fluffy mood, I’d go for a nice fun spanking as part of a sexual act and then there’s no apprehension or dread. I’m not too big on character taunting and bratting and misbehaving on purpose just to provoke their partner to spank them; if they want a spanking, they should ask nicely. Now, if they’re taunting and bratting on purpose in order to provoke a reaction or test boundaries but they don’t expect the reaction to be a spanking, that’s a different story, and I quite enjoy when they’re caught by surprise like, they expected something but not that, and now they have to deal with the indignity of having their bottom bared for their partner’s wrath. And it’s fun to explore their reactions of surprise and dismay that turn to confusion and even slight humiliation upon realising they actually like this, and ultimately full shameless acceptance and eagerness.

And when I’m in a bit darker mood, I love non-sexual spanking that’s clearly a punishment doled out by an authority figure. Then I love the whole non-con aspect of it, the fear, the tears, the distress, the shame, and anguish and misery. Actually those non-sexual setups are my most favourite spanking scenes to read tbh

And another one that I like is when the lines are blurred and the partner is in fact this authority figure in a relationship with a huge power imbalance, like omegaverse is great for that, or war prize aus, or some kind of historical setting, and the spanking is a punishment and means to assert dominance and keep one’s partner in check. It’s understood that disciplining your partner is fully within your right, and they find the spanking scary and shameful and utterly distressing, but perhaps they also can be faced with confusing feelings where this kind of submission leads them to experience arousal as well, and then they go through this whole journey of self-discovery.

What about you, anon? I suppose you read my fics, since you’re asking me about spanking and spanking characters specifically. What kind of setup is your favourite to read? Was there a fic I wrote that you read and got particularly tickled by? I’d love to know!!