anonymous perverts · 1d

https://alterspring.org/@meztlicat/a/115051039772781131
I agree and disagree I think neul does dominate the relationship/bin and is more in "control" but I also do think he'll never "own" bin 100% because bin is so elusive and represses so much, in a exes to lovers scenario I imagine neul would be the desperate chaser not bin 🤔I guess in a sense that's also bin dominating him mentally but like you said the relationship is very push and pull

yeah honestly theres soooo many ways for it to play out but like heres my general feelings abt them in their dynamic (disclaimer - these are just My Thoughts it means nothing for who they actually are bc idk them before ppl get mad..)

neul - someone who enjoys/is used to having a sense of power/control w people. hes effortlessly confident and capable and likes when ppl spoil/give him attention bc it makes him feel like he has a grip on them. to be astrology abt it i recently talked abt on priv how in vedic astro, i find cancer nakshatras (punarvasu pushya ashlesha) leaning particular dominant. i wont get super into it but ill post my priv scs abt it haha. anyways neul /is/ someone who will fixate on a person he cant “pin down.” i think we even see this outside of bnb (see: how he fixates on tael not giving him skinship). its almost a challenge? very pushya sun of him tbh. and its why he relishes soooo much in seeing bin “crack” its how he “maintains” power in the dynamic

bin — elusive and repressed is honestly so real like okay mrigashiraaa. but seriously while bin can be rly straightforward that doesnt mean he reveals himself entirely, in fact hes said how he tends to keep things inside (lets remember how he and neul fought in debut era bc of all the responsibilities bin was taking) + the model student aura he gives off. hes someone who doesnt “want” others to worry about him but in reality he does enjoy when ppl “chase” and “dote” on him (cough him liking ppl older…) but again. he doesnt “want” ppls worry… again more astrology but mrigashira is funny bc they love to wander (represented by the deers head). bin is both chaser and chased tbh this is something i strongly feel cuz he goes after what he wants (people and goals) but being chased is obviously a more vulnerable feeling and i think this makes him even more elusive. so less… “dominating” and more. steering? unintentionally just by the way he is

i didnt even mean to make this astrology but it is kinda what shapes some of my thoughts LOL but another thing is that neuls moon bharani has themes of “chasing yr love through death” so both of them have these themes in their charts so its very… chase and be chased between both of them. neul just holds on tighter and bin can slip out easier

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