I ported this question from my lewd alterpsring, and also wanted to note that it's like 5 months old so it actually predates me and Aya dating.

We kind of just sync with one another very well, though we're also pretty oppositional to one another in ways that I think are complimentary or probably better serve to support our weaknesses. When we're together we're both always making the same kind of jokes, if not the same one, and always ready to go on the attack with one another in every playful way. Like we always know just where to poke the other one, and we both have an fairly easy time speaking heart-to-heart.

The easy example is that Aya is a self-stated overthinker and I love the danger zone. If we are ever making plans or talking about anything, she'll almost always have a perspective on it that I wouldn't have considered at all. If she's ever hesitating with something or getting caught up in her own head, I will push her forward safely cause I've already stepped on all these rakes.

As for what I was looking for in a partner, I did think for a while what my ideal partner would be like and I just encapsulated it as Marine Houshou. Marine is someone who is incredibly silly and very open about her sexuality, but is also very wise and emotionally intelligent. She doesn't take herself seriously but doesn't wouldn't let herself be walked over (metaphorical, literal probably though). And she has great artistic taste and passion.

So imagine my surprise when I found someone who hits all those bulletpoints and I have an incredible chemistry with.