gna treat this seriously even if idk what tone we're going for #sincerity and even if the concept of being a sex larper somewhat amuses me as i first think of larp as the acronym it is, and if ur live action roleplaying sex, at what point does one then engage in sex? (like how are we defining sex? but im a bit unconventional abt what can be counted as sex, ik) etc etc. anyhow.

in the sense of the more online term/concept of a larper, as someone posturing / pretending / faking, unless ur actively going around acting like an authority abt certain kink/fetish stuff as if u have the lived experience you lack, then i don't think you non-sex having status stops your fetishes from being.. real? like if it revs ur engine, or you get off to it then it's real? and thus ur not a larper.

so much fetish/kink to me at least is mental, even if some of it will be tied to physical experiences or actions or aesthetics/looks? but i also think that not having tried certain things irl / with a partner should come w the awareness of that the reality might not be what you wanted out of the fantasy, and that's fine too, and doesn't mean the theoretical/mental enjoyment of the fantasy wasn't real either. it's ok to like things in theory vs practice (and also solo vs with someone). and how are we supposed to figure out what kind of sex we want to have if we don't consider these things beforehand and discover diff things we're into or would like to try or enjoy getting off too? i think that's pretty healthy, but i'm also no authority on any of this stuff. sorry if you wanted a snappy fun n silly response lmao!