well they chose a bad way to go about it. coming into my anons and being rude to me isn't the way I want to make friends. I deleted a 3rd message from them that was also p. rude. and if they didn't mean it to be shitty, they would have said that when it was clear I didn't take their message well. so it's on them to better explain themselves if they wanted to be my friend or talk to me about such things.