📑 · 12 answers · 1mo
apr. 24 '26
hello all,
who Aren't you? what have you gotten better at, lately? (or...over a long span of time. sometimes you need it, you know...) do you spend a lot of time reflecting?
i know some people may feel like their behaviour isn't them, per se, but i think the ability to improve does hold a lot of weight over who you are. who you are, to me, is who you aren't—who you can't be, who you've stopped being, who you make sure you'll never be. and—maybe you've improved other things. not your behaviour, but your mental. your thought processes, your inner voice...
so, who can't you be? who will you never be? how's that going along—or do you maybe not put a lot of thought into this sort of stuff at all...?
this is a fairly abstract question. typically i'd try not to talk too much on these, but i figured maybe some suggestions could help.
i can't be the person that'd leave my friends at their lowest again. my younger self didn't know love but i know now, so i want that to always be present. i cannot afford to be that person again, and i won't...
i'm gonna admit i never really thought about it this way, in my head i was just shifting priorities, still seeing myself on a pedestal, but then i realized i can't be that bad of a person if i still have space in my life for the people i care for, so i think i'm improving, growing maybe. wish i still had someone from back then to truly tell me if i changed, but i guess the mirror will have to do.
