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apr. 24 '26
hello all,

who Aren't you? what have you gotten better at, lately? (or...over a long span of time. sometimes you need it, you know...) do you spend a lot of time reflecting?

i know some people may feel like their behaviour isn't them, per se, but i think the ability to improve does hold a lot of weight over who you are. who you are, to me, is who you aren't—who you can't be, who you've stopped being, who you make sure you'll never be. and—maybe you've improved other things. not your behaviour, but your mental. your thought processes, your inner voice...

so, who can't you be? who will you never be? how's that going along—or do you maybe not put a lot of thought into this sort of stuff at all...?

this is a fairly abstract question. typically i'd try not to talk too much on these, but i figured maybe some suggestions could help.

I can't live with myself if I become someone who'll intentionally hurt anybody.⠀That sounds extreme,⠀&⠀it's no hyperbole ──── we have an uncanny aptitude for blighting our loved ones.⠀Maybe that's why I'm learning to see the line between abandonment⠀&⠀boundary.

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