i need you to give me a specific brainworm example for this because i think we both love this but im not quite sure if im imaginig it right.... i also really love an open and honest minho. this is why i also love it when before the noncon hes like "jisung, im going to fuck yuo" and jisung gets to be all ah!!! about it but its inevitable that minho will fuck him because he Said he will and so he will. its still noncon because jisung is shaking and struggling but minho gets to hold him down and tell him that he has to do this, he wants to make jisung feel good, or he knows jisung needs it, or maybe that he needed it so bad that there was no way he woudlnt do it. i love jisung being so anxious and scared and horny from the anticipation because he knows its inevitable but he keeps telling himselflike maybe hyungs just messing with me ?? but the way minho looks at him like he wants to devour him is saying the opposite ... sighs dreamily. i just like a lot of dialogue in fanfics, and therefor i also like it when minho doesnt feel guilty about what he does and is open and unapologetic about his desires and needs... obviously also the dirty talk goes crazy.. fucking jisung while telling him itll just hurt a little, and its ok to cry because minho knows his cock is big but jisung will do so well and take him well because he was made for him hhgmfh ... and then in the end jisung understands why minho did that to him and theres no uncertain feelings, and maybe minho tells him he'll do it again ... sighs dreamily. i love a minho who guides jisung through communication. idont think that i love a constipated minho that much? like i know theres very good stories out there with a minho who struggles with his feelings. but the way i like to do it is that he never struggles with his feelings, but only struggles a little with communicating them effectively. he uses a few less words and often hes speechless, but hes very clear on his feelings... but whenever jisung needs to talk, hes there to listen to him and remember what was said, even if in the moment he knows that hteres nothing he can say to make jisung feel better. most of the time just holding jisungs hand or touching him in other smaller ways while jisung talks helps .. minho likes to be deliberate with his words and i like to nerf him a little by making him just a little slow at getting those Out. irl minho speaks very concisely and is a fast thinker, and i love those traits for minho, but i also like to give him things he struggles with a little- in this case needing a bit of time to find the right words to say to jisung because he knows jisung is sensetive and words mean a lot to him .... meanwhile i like to make jisung talk just for the sake of talking, because he processes verbally, and just likes using his voice and mouth. hes also a fast thinker but he doesnt speak concisely and he doesnt filter himself, he rather takes the scenic route to get to the point that hes trying to make, because hes partially discovering it himself during the process of talking. thoguhts become concrete once theyre said out loud and its how he discovers what feels right and what doesnt, sometimes. thats also my nerf for him. you cant always speak your unfiltered thoughts and expect those not to hurt to hear, or expect them to make a lot of sense .... concise speaker x rambler my beloved .