I'm sorry I upset you, but I should clarify: I did not speak over anyone, nor did I accept or deny anyone's apology. I also didn't speak over anyone; I did not say that everyone should forgive her and forget what she said, I just believe that she shouldn't be condemned for what she said for her entire life; I explicitly made it clear that I wasn't asking everyone to forgive her, re: "I'm not saying that those who she has offended should forgive her". It is not my place to speak, of course, because I wasn't the one offended, but ira's also my friend, and I felt that I should defend her, especially when she's akin to a younger sibling to me.