Anonymous · 1mo
EHELP im writing this here bcs i have no one to talk ab this with in real life (U DON'T HAVE TO RESPOND) but i just ended things w a guy ive been talking to because he lives far away and i don't have time to keep up a long distance relationship (have 2 jobs, one on weekdays one on weekends + am thinking about what to study in the future) but hes like kinda nice and i just feel bad for him 😭 i think this was the right decision for me but im kind of doubting myself cause its scary
hi dearest anon 😭 unfortunately life is too short to stay in relationships bc the guy is “kind of nice” and you “feel bad for him” 🙃 it sounds like you did the right thing and you know it! regret and self-doubt are always natural after a break-up. ride it out and enjoy being able to prioritize what matters to you right now! i promise when it’s the right person, keeping in touch with them won’t feel like an obligation or a chore 🫂
