we're not mutuals but i hope i can drop my two cents..

i agree W this statement honestly cus it can be harmful to drive yourself to harassing others js cus they share the same f/o as you. a good block button never hurt nobody! but i'm js gonna say that it's not always delusion.. ik alot of yumes that are only non-sharing cus their f/o comes from a special interest or a very emotionally attached media. imo that's a completely understandable reason to be non-sharing for

i enjoy the selfshipping/yume community growing but a lot of trendhoppers are giving it a reeaally bad rep cus they'll call themselves soulbond/riakos just for competition or attention and then they'll send death threats to literally anyone

selfshipping has existed for ages and a lot of people have been doing it for a WHILE whether they've interacted w the community or not. but now it's like. the new discord kinnie shit. i'm lowkey js waiting til the big boom dies down so i can return to yumeing in peace