First off LOVE ur work so a lil nervous to say anything for the first time but second I have to sadly disagree with just some part of ur points as a full on dead dove enjoyer when it come to anonymous posts No anonymous stuff isn't bad in general [slippery slope & ye it benefits mental health but also can be bad for it too if you're constantly looking over your shoulder-] & no it's not any of yalls fault some ignore dnis or use anonymous option in a misleading way, I just disagree on tht part how you seem to put zero blame on peeps who lie plus ignore dnis & put alot of blame on who might not be real antis to begin with or say it's an anti behavior & belief they want to us to be honest [real antis are peeps that hate, censor, harass not that they block and have strong dnis or don't agree, honestly words like anti and proship are losing their meaning...] Our fandom DOES have it's own issues when interacting with people we don't agree with or are also attempting to navigate their own mental health experience like we are & it's an issue not brought up enough within our community about how hypocritical some are about remaining in our own spaces while trying to secretly squeeze into both worlds by lying to people they become close with & labeling them as anti behind their back [Im sure some antis also do that ofc]...maybe hot take but sometimes it's not friends tht turn against us & betray our trust when they find out we hid its us that is the problem if we already knew they weren't comfortable around certain people yet lied That is my two cents though & have good day!