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Kaelrich.
Volzgrim
Heidelberg, Germany.
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🦇 · 1mo

Kael, apa yang bakal kamu lakuin kalau suatu hari kamu menemukan fakta orang yang kamu sayang udah bohong sama kamu dan menghancurkan kepercayaan kamu? Aku lagi mengalami ini dan sakit sekali rasanya sampe gak tau harus bereaksi gimana

Terima kasih sebelumnya karena sudah mau cerita. Kebetulan aku pernah mengalami hal yang serupa, tapi aku gak bisa cerita soal lengkapnya. Yang jelas waktu itu aku langsung konfrontasi ke yang bersangkutan, setelah itu aku kasih waktu buat diri sendiri untuk tenang dan mikirin lagi apakah hubungan itu masih pantas dipertahankan. Memang gak gampang, tapi dari situ aku belajar banyak hal juga. Jadi aku cuman bisa bilang, jangan buru-buru ambil keputusan, tapi jangan juga abaikan perasaan kamu. Semoga bisa membantu ya.

🦇 · 1mo

Can I have a crush on you? Only if you are okay with that

That’s something only you can decide and I’ll respect whatever you feel about it.

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Do you have your eyes on someone at the moment?

🦇 · 1mo

Kael, how would you feel if you suddenly got the silent treatment? Like, no reason at all, no warning. But then you see them active on the tl, playing Roblox, calling someone “husband/wife.” We don’t even have a label—we agreed from the start it’s just fwa. But it still stings, y’know? Especially since me, as an avoidant, I’ve been trying so hard to act more secure with them. And then this happens… makes me wonder if I’m just not worth it after all.

I can see why that would get to you. Even if you both agreed it’s just fwa, you’re still a person who deserves respect. So when you suddenly get silent treatment with no reason and then notice them active somewhere else, it’s natural to feel sad by that. That doesn’t mean you’re not worth it. Sometimes people act in ways that don’t line up with the effort you’re giving and that’s on them, not on you.

🦇 · 2mo

i saw your artwork, and i have to say, it was incredible 💯

🦇 · 2mo

Kael, may I recommend you a song to try on your bass? It's the intro to this song called 'Friends' by Chase Atlantic.

Thanks for the recommendation, I really appreciate it. I’ll check out the intro and see how it feels on bass.

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Dari kemaren hawanya bikin ngantuk ga si?

🦇 · 2mo

Malam Kael. How's your day? I hope everything went well. May you tell me one thing you're grateful for today?

Sorry it took me a while to reply. What I’m grateful for is that my patients are all fine and doing better.

🦇 · 2mo

kael kamu vibesnya anak pertama banget dan kaya abang yang sangat mengayomi adiknya...

Kebetulan memang anak pertama, tapi sayangnya aku anak tunggal. Mau punya saudara juga.

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