im not sure if u meant feedee or made a typo typing feeder but i will give my thoughts on both
cutesy feeders are very good,,,, as much as i do get off on like, feeders being strange and not really regarding my needs in one sense or the other, i rlly do love feeders who really are hyper caring and sweet and kind, if i had a feeder irl thats probably what i'd like the relationship to look like
and shy submissive cutesy feedees, thats just... kinda me ehe,, ><