kitty · 24d

Hi I'm really sorry if you don't like this question but genuinely asking, I haven't known you for long and your pronouns aren't in your profile so what are they?

honestly i removed the pronouns from my bio on purpose because i like the idea of people referring to me as what they perceive me to be. they/them is fine if you're not sure what i am and would rather be gender neutral but i find myself to be pretty genderfluid so the idea of you assuming what my gender is based on what you know about me / how you view me excites me. even if we're not really close. if you view me as a girl, or a boy, or if you think i don't conform to any of those genders, you can refer to me as such without the need to ask for permission! i know it's probably counterintuitive for you to assume my gender or for you to just go with what feels right for you but i actually really like that and i really like understanding how others perceive me gender-wise, what i'm more often perceived as, what makes people associate me with masculinity, femininity, or neither, etc. anyway this was a simple question so i'm sorry for rambling on but i hope it kind of answers it for you! you can pick whichever pronouns you want to refer to me with~

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