it’s so annoying… and the worst part is so many ppl don’t even realize they ARE being homophobic/or misogynistic which is why we (i) complain every 5 business days. i really don’t know why ppl haven’t realize they can just like their bias being the bottom in a ship. which is the most normal reason ever. there’s no shame in it everyone does it. but ppl feel the need to be “right” so they start coming up with all these arbitrary reasons why their bias SHOULD and IS a bottom and surprise! they all happen to be homophobic/sexist stereotypes. and then at that point it isn’t about preferences at all, it’s just bigotry!