tbh the reason bunda acts that way is because she loves abang so much; she doesn’t want him to go through the same pain she did :] yes, bunda was in a wlw relationship. gak sampai jadian but she loved(s?) her deeply. but that love ended up costing bunda so much. it took away so many things from her life, and eventually she had no choice but to let her go and accept dijodohin sama ayah.