oh sweetheart… please don’t ever think like that... you don’t have to be me ;) i might not know you personally, but i truly believe everyone carries their own kind of magic, and i’m sure you do too. jangan pernah bandingin diri kamu sama orang lain ya, apalagi sama aku, sampai pengen jadi diriku… karena aku yakin kamu punya banyak hal kecil yang bikin kamu unik dan berharga. bahkan aku yakin ada banyak orang di luar sana yang juga kagum sama kamu, meskipun kamu mungkin nggak sadar. so please, don’t try to fit into someone else’s mold. love yourself, cherish your own journey, and be proud of how far you’ve come. keep showing up as you. because the world needs your light. god bless you, sender ♡

wow, honestly i didn’t expect this to be my very first hate comment so far. aku ada salah apa ya ke kamu, sender? did i say something wrong? or maybe is it something as simple as me interacting with someone you like? atau karna aku pernah memposting wajahku? well, sender, here's what i think: every women is beautiful in their own way, and every single one of us has the right to exist loudly, confidently, and unapologetically. termasuk aku. kalau aku merasa cantik dan ingin membagikannya, then i’ll do it proudly. not for validation, not for attention, but simply because i love myself. aku tau kok ga semua orang akan suka aku, dan aku pun ga maksa untuk suka. but if something i do bothers you that much, you could’ve just muted, unfollowed, or blocked me. sesimpel itu, tanpa perlu ninggalin jejak negatif yang honestly just reflects poorly on you. because sometimes, when people choose cruelty, it’s not really about us. it’s about something broken inside of them, they’re hurting, insecure, envy, or lost in their own chaos. and if that’s the case, then i genuinely hope you heal. i hope one day you learn that kindness will always take you further than bitterness ever will.