that they really are codependent to some extent. that despite jungwon usually going for sunghoon and jake for advice jay is the one who naturally offers him more support (me and my mr president and first lady agenda my bad but i have my reasons okay). that jay is so submissive he will dom if (when) jungwon asks him to. and when jay doms jungwon it's because jungwon trusts him enough to put himself in a submissive position. that one tweet that went viral these days about two guys dry humping because they don't think it counts as sex - they're like that when they drink together and go to jungwon's room. there's probably more but i'd be here forever lol