anonymous · 8mo
Hello po sorry sa spam sa lahat ng mga writers dito 😭 hindi ko lang kasi masabi sa mga friends ko kasi sawa na sila pakinggan mga sinasabi ko
There’s this guy po kasi 3 months na kaming naguusap maayos naman nung una pero these past few weeks napapansin ko parang sinasadya nyang iwasan ako kase nakikita ko syang online a minute or an hour ago pero wala syang reply o kahit basahin manlang messages ko na hindi naman nya ginagawa dati dahil lahat ng kwento ko may reply sya. Madalas na din ang reply nya kinabukasan na sa dami ng nasabi tapos sobrang tipid pa. Napansin ko rin na tinanggal nya na active status nya 😅
Hindi ko alam kung ako ba ang problema dahil wala pa namang kame pero sobrang clingy ko. I update him everyday. I don’t have any assurance din kase ako ang nagfirst move at sinasabi nya lang na gusto nya ako tuwing babanat sya o pabiro pa.
Then tumatak sa isip ko ang sinabi ng isa kong friend na baka daw hindi talaga interesado sakin si guy at ngayon lang nya narealized 😓
Pahingi pong advice kung ititigil ko na ba o hahayaan ko na lang na mapagod ako para madali syang bitawan kasi tbh ang lala ng attachment issues ko 😭
Sorry po kung sa inyo ko nabuhos lahat ng frustrations ko wala lang talaga ako mapagsabihan
i’m not the best person to give advice, but from what you shared, it does sound like he’s not as invested as before. and i know that hurts, especially when you’ve been the one putting in effort—it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you though. sometimes people just realize they’re not ready or not as serious, and that’s on them, not you. if you feel drained, it’s okay to slowly step back. you deserve consistency and someone who’s sure about you, not someone who makes you doubt yourself. i hope you heal from this and i really hope you choose yourself this time. :) sending hugs.
