if you want people to trust your words, get off the internet. Your healing process shouldn’t include interactions with any age ranges when you have shown a lack of self control & capacity to keep minors safe when speaking to them.

This isn’t us spreading misinformation, it’s stating facts. You have displayed predatory behaviour and that’s a fact you need to accept. There is proof that you can’t counter either. Words you cannot pass off as jokes anymore. It’s not about us refusing to see that you want to change, you had been warned so many times about your behaviour and announcements had to be made to have you tone it down but it didn’t happen until you decided to leave the friend group & isolate yourself because you were upset of the insinuations of the announcement. Everytime you were talked to about your behaviour, you apologized and then went back to it again! Or you went on a self deprecating spree to gain pity.

It doesn’t work like that anymore, you are a grown woman and you should be able to own up to your actions. I shouldn’t have to go tell minors about how unsafe you are because you shouldn’t interact with them to begin with. We don’t tell kids it’s okay to interact with predators outside of dms so why should we let you do so, even if you claim you won’t take it to dms. You should talk to people your age, that’s it. Interacting with adults should be even easier because you wouldn’t even have to worry about shit like this aside from personal boundaries.

You will be left alone when you prove yourself to be capable of doing what is best for not only you but those around you. You are old enough to face reality, no more coddling, no more whining. Sit with yourself and think, what truly would make me better? Invest in therapy, invest in a diary. Interact with people that are safe to for your temperament. It’s as simple as that. No matter how innocent an interaction might be, you shouldn’t be around minors. Take the advice for once in your life