in not understanding what they did wrong in the first place.. they're likely to keep doing the same thing :')

people are free to do what they want, but I don't recommend it to anyone sticking with that type of person (you can forgive them.. but it's better to move on from them) it's not healthy sticking with someone who doesn't understand the consequences of their actions/words no matter how attached you think you're to them

in some cases.. leaving them is not a choice (like if it's a family member or someone you're forced to live with) in those cases, it's better not to take what they say as facts & not ask their advice when it comes decision making cause whatever they're going to tell you is in their best interest, not yours

the more you stick to them, the more insecure you become about yourself (they're likely to damage your self-esteem & make you believe things that are untrue about yourself)

hope you stay safe, anon~♡