ive been people pleasing less 💭 Im still having sort of a hard time with it, but im learning to live with the fact that you cant be nice to everyone and have them all like you. i pushed a lot of expectations on myself to be nice at all times, which isnt healthy at all, no one is Completely 100% nice to everyone they meet. Everyones been a little rude at least once. that being said i think kindness is still very good and that people who are rude all the time are unreasonable