anonberry · 6d
my wokedanshi take on the top/bottom discourse is that someone's preferred position in sex is not part of their fucking personality lmao a friend once said that trying to guess if someone tops or bottoms from their day-to-day behavior is as efficient as trying to guess if they like dark or milk chocolate better without asking, you weren't "baited" by a longfic bc the author gave false clues, you just based your expectations entirely on stereotypes and got mad when they didn't turnnout to be true lol if the smut is all you care about there's plenty of pwp one-shots meticulously tagged for you to read quit being greedy and leave writers tf alone
bro it’s not even that woke it should be common sense!!! relatinf someone’s personality or behaviour to their preferences in bed is just straight up disrespectful and so many of these so called t/b purists have such an homophobic narrative. it’s exhausting to have queer relationships reduced to t/b and sex dynamics and feeding stereotypes that are just harmful and full of misogyny and fetishizing gay ppl
