I've doomscrolled your account for at least an hour or so now. My conclusion is that I'm very glad I've mostly steered clear of these spaces because, God, it does seem intolerably miserable. I'm glad you're willing to be the voice to speak up for those who can't or are too scared to.

I only know a few people on Rentrycord (not personally, just from word of mouth), and it's insanely concerning the way they all act. As full-grown adults, they should be deeply ashamed of themselves for their wildly childish and inappropriate, if not borderline predatory, behavior. It's seriously just depressing; this place is bleak. I'm so sorry for the people who had to deal with these people and were traumatized or otherwise messed up because of it. Best wishes and much love to you all.