i consider all my plushies to be the same entity so even if i never touch one and constantly hug a specific one in my mind all the love is being shared equally with all of them so they can never be lonely and i have nothing to feel guilty about. basically the end result is that the plushie that i sleep with is the one thats the easiest for my hands and the most comforting to cuddle and the ones that get in the way go in the shelf. i also just have plushies in different rooms for different purposes so idk