older anon again! “my posts were more to say that if this were a group of high schoolers i’d understand. but it gets to a point where that behavior is pretty embarrassing once it reaches a certain age” this makes a world of sense, thank you for clarifying your meaning! i completely agree. i just thought i’d say something because i figured you wouldn’t be thinking about how other people who are those assholes’ age might feel reading your posts. but thank you! and i hope they leave you alone!