(it's a secret) · 22d
What would you personally say to people who actively judge people for kinks? I feel like I've struggled a lot with forming words to go "please fuck off I don't like anything problematic and don't judge me" but I struggle to really say it as someone who /has/ been kink shamed before
Since I had my own little falling out with kinkshamers, one thing I've come to understand is how truly fascism-adjacent kinkshaming is, tied quite closely to queerphobia, swerfism, and misogyny in general & I prefer not to engage with people like this at all anymore these days. If I had to, I'd just repeat everything I just typed to them & when they start whining I will walk away.
