Ahhh.. This is a question I will always go back and forth, of which matters more, and on “what” or “how” should it gives you the certainty to steel your heart: yes, this is my person, this is—the one I will want to spend the rest of my life with. I don’t know. Timing, time has never been the right tool to measure accurately about anything and everything in regards of people, you know? Time is relative, everyone has their own clock, everyone has their own path to pave; but I do believe, compatibility will crush whatever wrong timings you have once you feel you have the connection no other person could ever resonate with. The thing about compatibility, it gives you the strength you never knew you had in you. It gives you reassurance. It gives you clarity. It gives you both protection and a sword, both to wage a war and to heal the wounds you’ve suffered. Whatever time they have, and whatever clock your watch ticks in the moment you laid your eyes on them—that moment becomes forever, and the only thing you know is how your heart touches them—and the language became one. In silence. In their loudest quietness.