i have multiple answers to this, but i shall give you four:

no.1: a butch🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤a butch who can throw me around🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤a butch who begs🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

no.2: someone who can make me laugh

no.3: someone who celebrates christmas on christmas day so we can celebrate with my family on christmas eve and then with their family on christmas day

no.4: someone who doesn't mind that i have 4739383 things to say while watching a movie (yes, even if it's our first time seeing it and i'm asking questions like if they know the answer lol)