Honestly this braindead Spring website culture of whiteknighting for your oomfs or people u dont even know personally has always been so weird to me. Yes, people are allowed to express their discomfort with being called a slur even if u can reclaim it....?? Hellooooooo?? I feel like the internet has made people so comfortable with disrespecting others too. I'm not even #Involved in whatever shit this is yet it pisses me off to see people completely disregard the state of disorders and acknowledge that ALTERS ARE ALTERS AND NOT THE SAME PERSON THEREFORE THERE WILL BE DIFFERENCES its not a hard concept to form in ur head

It's just so weird that no matter what proof is against someone or even not even against just being able to voice your concern and stand up for yourself people will turn it into "oh you hate victims of abuse just because youre uncomfortable with one" it's giving "so you hate waffles?"