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apr. 27 '26
hello all,
do you like communicating? like, for real though. like, if someone could instantly understand you, and vice versa—inside and out, no more arguments, and you're still just you know...regular people. friends, lovers, whatever. would you take that? over the work it'll take to get even MINUTELY close to that ideal?
additionally: how much do you value play? play as in, you know, umm...like, being able to tease your friends forever. always bickering. would you maybe prefer...silence?
Ideally? Yes. In reality? Maybe not??? One of the things I want the most in life is to be understood. However, I don't know if I'd want that understanding immediately. The more I write the less it makes sense to me, but I guess I semi-enjoy the mystery. Honestly, when I read this question at first, I was so sure that I wanted to be understood immediately but, as I'm writing this response, I'm realizing that it kind of blocks new connections to be made (and while I'm not the best at making connections, I don't want to completely cut off all possible chances of connection).
For the additional question: I do value play. Out of all of the love languages, I tend to cherish quality time the most. I hold onto the smallest moments because they mean so much to me.
