Thinking about it, wwx and jyl have similar love lives. faced rejection from their love interest, everyone thinks their love interest dislikes them, yet in the end they get happily married.
so anyways
when wwx realizes his feelings for lwj, he looks at how crushed jyl is whenever she gets rejected once again by jzx, then goes nope nope nope. isnt it pitiful how both of them fell in love with someone who cant even tolerate them enough to be friends? how can jc deal with both his siblings having depressive love lives? he wants shijie to move on, but ig he gotta do that first