i know where you're coming from and i do understand. i blocked them a while ago now, though, and am allowed to express my frustrations with transmisogynistic ex-friends talking shit about me to them and them showing up on a feed where i didn't have them blocked and setting off the bullshit i have to deal with wrt the OCD. it's not an excuse, of course, but you see the point, right? do trust me when i say i'm trying to stop, though. it's a tough situation because their behavior only served to remind me of my own sexual traumas, and they did not listen to SEVERAL attempts between multiple mutuals of theirs of various ages telling them to stop. so "informing them" is impossible.