i'll only softblock people from my priv if i don't trust them completely because i do say a lot of stuff there, i've gotten told a bunch of times that if i want to share my honest opinion on stuff that then i should invest my time on a private account so that's what i did, and i use my priv to say exactly what i feel and how i feel it. if i get the feeling that someone on there might view me differently for what i say/choose to softblock me for that (basically, if i feel like someone might not be accepting of my standpoint), then i'd rather not have them on there at all and just keep things neutral (as i don't normally share my opinion on my main). moreover, i did recently softblock a bunch of people from my priv because i had over a 100 followers there and i most definitely was not super close with all of them, so i wanted to make it something a little more private and dedicated specifically to close oomfs, not to mention that i've said before i want on my priv only people who will actively interact with me so if you're not interactive i'm probably gonna remove you.

as for the dms thing, i'm not sure i get what you mean. if you're asking about why i'd randomly stop texting someone, there's multiple reasons for that. number one is, i'm very busy during the day. i genuinely have so much stuff to do regarding school and practice and exams so more often than not i barely have the energy to hold out long conversations with someone unless we're talking about a specific topic, and if i do have time then i spend it on call with my girlfriend / just scrolling / writing. additionally, i also do not normally engage in conversations over text with anyone because i struggle reading tone over text + i'd much rather call and speak (which is reserved for close friends only!), so i don't really text people a lot. i'm also very forgetful too asjkdjfj so even if i see the text message i'll just leave it rotting in my inbox because i either can't physically bring myself to reply or because i genuinely forget it.

like i told the other anon, pls if you have any further questions just dm me or leave your user and i'll dm you! no bad blood if i sbed you from my priv, i promise.

i don't normally block people but the reasons why i might are:

1) more often than not, if they blocked me first, i'm gonna block them back. call me petty but it pisses me off to catch random strays who have me blocked when i don't even know who they are so i just block them back to avoid seeing it. applies to oomfs that blocked me for whatever reason as well, i'm just trying to keep my space comfortable and pleasant for me and for my own peace of mind.
2) if they actively participated in a witch hunt / dogpiling against me, specifically if they refused to listen to me or let me explain and were comfortable with spreading around misinformation and publicly speaking ill of me (and MORE specifically if they used to be close with me and randomly decided to join a hate train), i will block them. if there's a call-out or 'expose' post on me and i see people on the replies talking about it, then doubling down when i reply respectfully to try and explain what really happened, i'm most likely gonna block them because to me it just speaks of a very close-minded, obtuse way to move through life. i appreciate people who can acknowledge other perspectives that are not their own and if i realize that's not the case, i will block.
3) if they think they can get a point across by insulting me or being just overall rude and disrespectful. i've had it said about me a couple times before that i 'refuse to admit when i've done something wrong and block people who call me out on it' because i do, in fact, block people who talk to me disrespectfully or insult me, even if they're right for calling me out. any person that calls me out respectfully will always get a major thank you and appreciation for me, but a person who calls me out for the same reason (that might be right!) but is rude and crass toward me will be blocked.
3) anyone i find out has talked badly about me without me knowing or is friends with people who hate me or actively speak badly about me, i'm probably gonna block (if i can be bothered to). it's nothing personal, you might not have said anything bad about me, but i just don't like feeling like these people that dislike me have a 'mole' or someone lurking on my account who can tell them what i'm up to just to have excuses to bring me down even further.

i think those are the primary reasons why i'd block someone, as i don't normally block people at all. might as well add, i recently had some problems involving a bunch of people where i found out there's a small friend group involving people that all deeply dislike me and were talking ill of me for no apparent reason. out of this bunch i already had most of them blocked, so i can't be bothered to care about them, but there were one or two that were interactive mutuals with me and whom i decided to block because it felt awfully two-faced and hypocritical and i didn't feel neither safe nor comfortable knowing they'd said stuff about me while pretending we got along. i don't know who you are, you might have been one of these people; otherwise, i'm not sure.

if you need a genuine explanation as to why i blocked you specifically, let me know ur user and i'll dm you.

let me educate you a bit here. “dead dove: do not eat” is not an interchangeable term for being proship or writing about those specific topics you’re mentioning. it just means a fanfic with that tag might include certain taboo topics, but those are NOT exclusively rape, underage, incest, bestiality, etc.

on my side, my interest for dd:dne comes from liking topics related to gore such as cannibalism, which is essentially classified as a “taboo topic” but that is not at all related to rape and incest just because it is within the same classification of “taboo”. i’m very open about my love for horror and thrillers — that’s what MY “loving dd:dne” means and why i had it on my bio for a while before i realized it might be misleading and decided to remove it. it does not mean i support rape and incest and grooming and any of the other topics that might be considered dd:dne. and moreover, i don’t think im mutuals with any adult proshippers? if you have enough time to go through all my following list, im sure you have time to tell me what proship +18 accounts you’ve seen that i’m following so i can explain the reason why im following them to you. i’m very careful about who i follow and what topics i deal with on this account. those you mentioned (rape, incest, grooming, underage) are not things i condone. so the answer to all your questions is no.

i’m gonna copy paste because i’m genuinely so done of explaining this over and over again and you mfs still coming to ask for more explanations: as for the twt, i’m gonna repeat it for the fiftieth time because you’re clearly not doing your research before coming on here. i’ve said multiple times before i don’t condone rape/noncon in this account at all. the twt that was screenshotted is a twt i must have made two? three months ago? that i can’t even remember ever posting, hence can’t remember the exact thought process behind it, but i know it wasn’t that because i as a person do not enjoy or support that kind of content and let alone in a public, biggish account as is mine. i made that post and forgot about it and not so long ago an oomf dmed me to point out to me that it sounded like a rape fantasy. i reread the twt and realized that it did in fact sound like a rape fantasy, that my wording was horribly off and even though i didn’t know exactly what i might have wanted to convey with that drabble, it was definitely not my intention to make it sound like that, so i deleted it. i think i must have been thinking of something like a strip tease, though im not certain. of course for some reason (?) some people dug it up out of nowhere and posted it even though it’s been deleted for a while now.

i’m gonna copy paste because i’m genuinely so done of explaining this over and over again and you mfs still coming to ask for more explanations: as for the twt, i’m gonna repeat it for the fiftieth time because you’re clearly not doing your research before coming on here. i’ve said multiple times before i don’t condone rape/noncon in this account at all. the twt that was screenshotted is a twt i must have made two? three months ago? that i can’t even remember ever posting, hence can’t remember the exact thought process behind it, but i know it wasn’t that because i as a person do not enjoy or support that kind of content and let alone in a public, biggish account as is mine. i made that post and forgot about it and not so long ago an oomf dmed me to point out to me that it sounded like a rape fantasy. i reread the twt and realized that it did in fact sound like a rape fantasy, that my wording was horribly off and even though i didn’t know exactly what i might have wanted to convey with that drabble, it was definitely not my intention to make it sound like that, so i deleted it. i think i must have been thinking of something like a strip tease, though im not certain. of course for some reason (?) some people dug it up out of nowhere and posted it even though it’s been deleted for a while now.