honestly it's different with men and women? generally, when they're slightly mean to me and we have this sort of banter dynamic going on. really specific plots/storylines i suppose — something related to crime or dddne — something with adrenaline, something thrilling, something that allows me to write and develop the persona. also film nerds are hot. and they gotta be slightly messed up. like, oh-are-they-gonna-trap-me-in-their-cult-? type of messed up.

with men—i looove a well dressed fellow. the more the better tbh uhm i don't really like seeing skin on men... is that weird. i mean generally in everyday life, like why are you not wearing a shirt? Anyway, i'm digressing. i like it when men teases, when we're toeing that line between what-the-hell-is-this and shit-those-are-fuck-me-eyes. when they know when to put their hands, when to get rough, when to be gentle, when they know when to kiss.

with women, it's quite difficult because i, fortunately, am a women lover. an unconventional turn ons would be a lil cutie pie taking the lead. with women, i definitely gotta be approached first lol. fuck i really can't decide, with women i like feminines, mascs, short, tall, tattooed — i think corruption is hot though. when she treats me like i don't know anything, or when she pretends to be so stupid that she's not getting what i'm saying...

(also bare minimum but when they seem like they enjoy speaking to me. Um)