things that make me the most comfortable or the happiest would have to be physical affection and words of reassurance. i love being reassured that i still matter Yay

(the bonus one)
a) for zenos i think it varies. Heavily. He usually thinks bloodshed and fighting is the way to go though :sob:
b) astarion... Hm. i am thinking long and hard but imo he'd enjoy words of reassurance. same as i do. and perhaps some physical affection. Especially after the cazador stuff in his companion quest. i dont want to mischaracterize him lowkey bc im still not fully through bg3 but........yeah. i think he longs for affection deep down even though he had been hurt; he longs to have someone acknowledge him for who he is instead of his body
c) for hythlodaeus it would definitely be physical affection. i think he's the type to hug and tease everyone around him so i'll add playful banter onto that :thinking: aside from that i have no further idea