im just assuming ik the context of this but in that case id have hoped youd read the part where i said "although personal, ive grown past this experience and am okay with sharing it as a way to wish for another's protection of themselves" ... not trying to be mean its just that the answer to your question is really right there 🥲 im not affected by any of what happened, i share it to help people especially to figure the red flags out and see if it matches whats happening to them and that they're not alone!