I nearly swooned when a girl offered to buy me a drink the other day, so I think it's fair to say that what's getting me most at the moment is the idea of someone taking control. Ideally through physical strength, but weight, height, or sheer charisma are all equally acceptable. Or all of the above if someone really wanted to spoil me. Oh to get tossed against a wall with surprising force then pinned up against it by a soft gut as someone looms over me and figuratively charms the pants off of me while arms that I couldn't stop if I wanted to actively tore them off. Cold brick lightly scratching against freshly exposed flesh as I helplessly squirm and pant under their power. I'm biting my lip just thinking about it...