Took me a while to mull over this one. Honest answer is that it depends on my mood. But a couple things that will catch my attention are legginga, fishnets, stockings & garters (latex ones ended up on my radar recently), a collar w/ optional leash, biker jackets, oversized shirts???, heels (like high high heels), piercings, bruises, tattoos expressing your unwavering loyalty to me, and occasionally religious garb.